You must plan for divorce success. Divorce planning is essential. As family law attorneys we plot the course with you and then navigate the complex waters of divorce. As experienced attorneys we have a unique ability to see into your future. We are not mystics or seers but from experience we know where you’ll be in the future, from a legal stand point, from what happens now in your divorce. Our goal is to position you to get there.

 

Once there is some evidence that divorce is in your path it is time to plan. This should be well in advance of actually filing for divorce. We know there are emotions but we, while compassionate, must help you see this as a business transaction. You can be nice in business but you must plan on how to be nice. Ask yourself what it is you want out of the break up. Too often we hear people say they just want out. We recognize this is your reality but we also realize you are vulnerable and need an advocate in your corner. Ask yourself what things are worth fighting for and at what cost will the fight no longer make sense.

 

Over the last decade family law has become much more complex. There are gender issues, virtual visitation issues, sexual orientation issues that are evolving. The most important issue relating to representing yourself is what the actual agreement states. Getting the form right is but one element. The content must say the proper things based upon your situation. Failure to address issues now or improperly addressing them will result in costly modifications in the future.

 

Under certain circumstances, an agreeable couple can get through a divorce by with very few battles. This is the most efficient and least expensive divorce. These are typically called non-contested divorces. These tend to occur where the marriage has been short and there is a minimal property and no issues related to children. Many people tell us that they have it all worked out and that it is non contested. Often nothing could be further from the truth. They have numerous issues but the prospective client has wishful thinking and hopes it will just workout. This is another essential reason for divorce planning

 

What do you really want out of the divorce? Discuss these wants with you attorney. We need to know your wish list and you need to know our honest evaluation. You may want things that clearly may not happen. By discussing this upfront the parties can set realistic objectives.